You should feel good about the gifts you give. Keeping in mind that it truly is the thought behind the gift and spirit of generosity with which it is given that matter most, here are five tips for giving gifts without succumbing to stress.
Get Their Wish List
Ask people for hints or even a wish list. Gather ideas during the year, and write everything down.
Trust Your Judgment
Forget about being afraid the gift isn’t “perfect.” If you think the person will like it, chances are they will.
Stick To Your Budget
Spending more than you should takes the fun out of gift giving. There’s nothing more stressful than overspending—and feeling uneasy about it.
Buy It When You See It
If you’re shopping in July and see a sweater that your mother would love, buy it. It probably won’t be there when you look in December.
Start A Gift Closet
Stash a few gifts that will work in a pinch: copies of your favorite cookbook, a good bottle of wine or boxes of beautiful note cards. That way you’ll be ready if you need a gift on the spot.
—Peggy Post writes for the Emily Post Institute