In his recent letter to the parish of St. Stephen’s Church, Father Gary Parker quoted author George Herbert in proclaiming, “In age, we bud again.”
Appointed as Priest-in-Charge in January, Father Parker sees his role for the next three years as working with members of the parish and community to bring a spirit of renewal and spiritual growth.
A New York native, Father Parker spent most of his career as a U.S. Navy Chaplain serving on ships, in Marine Corps units and various posts overseas.
At one point, he was Chaplain to the Marines that protect the U.S. Embassies abroad and carried a black diplomatic passport.
“One of the most interesting things about being a Navy chaplain was the diversity of the people,” Father Parker said. “It is a chaplain’s responsibility to minister to people of all faiths, whether they are Hindu, Muslim, Jewish, Christian or Wiccan as their constitutional right to freedom of religion. Plus, they are a ‘captive audience,’ and you live with them 24/7 and really get to know them and they in turn, you.”
He said this experience stretched him as a priest, and he learned a great deal from all the variety of people and missions.
Upon retiring from the military, he became Director of Veteran’s Affairs, Healthcare, Prisons and First Responders chaplaincies for the Episcopal Church until 2006. In this role, he visited Ground Zero in 2002, and met with first responders there to help develop lessons to aid in future disaster zones. Since then he has served in parishes on Long Island, in Colorado and North Carolina as interim priest.
Father Parker had a gleam in his eye when asked how he has been able to move frequently and still find a sense of community.
He said he asks God “to send him where he is needed” and has faith in process. “Let go and let God” is one of his favorite phrases and it has served him well during his chaplaincy and parish roles.
He is impressed with Port Washington’s diversity, storied history and waterfront beauty. Most recently he was struck by the incredible caring and compassionate nature of our community.
Shortly after he arrived, the tragic houseboat fire occurred. He witnessed first hand how the Clergy Association in town ministered to those in need through channeling donations, fundraising and reaching out “under the radar” to provide for the needs of those effected.
He believes that St. Stephen’s Church is open to all people, just as Jesus was in his gospel ministry.
“Whether they are hurting in some way, marginalized or just seeking a closer relationship with God and a connection to the community, all are welcome—just come,” he said.
He invited all to join in the Wednesday evening Lenten program which takes place in the parish hall March 11, 18 and 25, at 6 p.m. (light supper) and 7 p.m. (reflection and discussion).
He will be exploring various topics each week, such as “Is there a God? Can he be found?” and how to find a ladder to God.
“Come…and bring a friend,” he said.
